HOW TO ASK FOR A FIRST DATE - MALE AND FEMALE SENIORS
by Karen T

Asking for a first date is a process that begins way before the first words are even uttered. The mechanics of the process are universal and applicable across all generations with a few exceptions. This article will concentrate on the exceptions that affect the senior boomers generation.
Offer Compliments
Offering complements is a great way to set the ball rolling. You can offer complements about one's cooking, gardening skills among other things.
Talk to each other
If you belong to the same hobby group or attend the same church, you should make an effort to establish communication. At first, the talk need not more than just banter.
Check if your target is available
Before asking a senior boomer for a date, it is important to make sure that they are available to date.
Comfort zone
People will only agree to go out on a date if they feel comfortable around each other. Therefore, before bringing the idea of a date into focus, you should find ways and means of making the other party comfortable around you.
Plan in Advance
Senior boomers are not renowned for their spontaneous nature. Therefore, prior planning is desired when asking for a first date.
This will provide the other party with time to sort out their calendar and plan for the date.
Confirmation Call
Once arrangements for a date have been made, it is prudent to call to confirm the date details with your date to be.
Have a plan
This basically entails knowing where you will be going for the date and what you will be doing. Most senior boomers appreciate serene and tranquil environments where they can enjoy each other's company.
Pick her up
Senior boomers were bred knowing that a gentleman should always pick up his date, pay for the date and drop her home. Anything that deviates from this norm will not go down well with a senior boomer.